Numb.
Cheated.
Saddened.
Robbed.
All those and more. I don’t feel like writing, so this post will be short.
Yesterday, Travis and I went in for our first midwife’s appointment. During this appointment, we learned that I had miscarried our baby. I go in for a D & C tomorrow.
No more words today.
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grieving…lindsay
Jess @ Blonde Ponytail says:
I’m praying for you and your family and am so so sorry Lindsay. No words–just thinking of you.
Ashley @ Freckles & Spice says:
I’m so sorry in my delay for catching up on your blog. I’m soo sorry and devastated for you. I’m sending so many thoughts your way.
lindsaymwright says:
thank you, Ashley!
Betty says:
Hi Lindsay…I found your blog via Chelsey’s blog. I just wanted you to know that I have been in your exact situation….and I know how hard and how unfair it is. I miscarried our baby last January and also had a D&C. If you need someone to ‘talk’ with, ask questions…I’m happy to help. Please know that you and your husband are in our prayers.
lindsaymwright says:
Oh Betty! I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you for your prayers!!
Amy@spotonwellness says:
Hi Lindsay,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can truly understand the pain you are feeling and my thoughts and prayers go out to you, your husband and your families. In 2005, I had a stillbirth at 27.5 weeks and it was the WORST day, week, month, time of my life (and my husbands, too). We can never fully understand why it happened, but for me, I have faith that God knew something I didn’t. Our little angels are looking down on us and wrapping their tiny little hands in ours when we need it most. I am sending hugs to you and pray you feel peace soon.
Kelly @ Laughter, Strength, and Food says:
No words can convey how sorry I am for your loss. Prayers and hugs go out to you and your family. May you find strength during this difficult time…
Ali @ WHOLEistically Fit says:
I am so sorry to hear of you and your husband’s tremendous loss. There are no words. I am thinking of you and sending you a warm embrace. May you both experience great comfort and love in this time of despair. My heart goes out to you.
Kristina says:
I am so SO very sorry, Lindsay. sending healing energy and hugs to you.
Katie @ peacebeme says:
Aw I am so sorry for the pain you are going through Lindsay. Hard things happen and I truly believe that the function of God is to comfort us and give us strength through the hard times, so I am praying that you feel those things during this time. Thinking of you!
britt@knewlywifed says:
i am so, so sorry linds. i am praying for God’s sweet peace for you and your family.
SuzanneU says:
My prayers are with you. I just lived through the same devestation. I was pregnant with my first baby and lost it. Had a D&C on Halloween. It gets better. You just have to take it one day at a time.
Kim says:
I’m so sorry, Lindsay. Thinking of you.
Olviya@servingsisters.com says:
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you.
Lindsay says:
Lindsay, you are a gift and a treasure; you warm my life everyday through your blog. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as well as your little guardian angel.
Lindsay says:
Lindsay, you are gift and a treasure; you warmly touch my life everyday. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, as well as your little guardian angel.
Lisa @ The Splattered Apron says:
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. No words can provide comfort, but please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carlyn says:
sending love, hugs,prayers, thoughts–everything you need right now xo
Allison @ Life's a Bowl says:
I am so sorry Lindsay and will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. XO
Katie @ Livehalffull says:
I’m praying for you!!!
Rachel @RunningRachel says:
Big hugs!! No words… just love and hugs!! <3
Shannon (Healthiful Balance) says:
Aw, sorry to hear this! I hope you are well! <3
Brittany (Healthy Slice of Life) says:
No words, Lindsay. I’m so, so sorry. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Claire @ Flake and Cake says:
I am so sorry to read this Lindsay. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Fancy Nancy says:
I am so sorry to hear this….it is never easy. I lost our baby last year and know the pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kirsten says:
I am so sorry Lindsay. Praying for you.
Kerryne says:
Thinking of you and your sweet family, sending prayers, and hugs in this difficult time! I am so sorry to hear this, and pray that you will find strength. Big hugs!
Kierston says:
I am so sorry Lindsay. Thinking of you and your family xo
She Rocks Fitness says:
You are in my thoughts and prayers Lindsay! I know you have your family there for you, but we are here for you too! xoxo
Maria says:
You’ve been on my mind all day and each time I’ve prayed for your healing, your comfort and peace for you and your family.
Anne Jasinski says:
I am so so sorry. With two healthy children at home, I miscarried (well, ectopic so surgery required) our third child. I was blown away at how devastated I was (I think I felt so guilty being so distraught as so many around me couldn’t conceive and we already had two.)But as you know, it was our child and God’s child and I felt robbed nonetheless. It was a while before I was ready to even think about trying again (but thankfully we did and had an uneventful, healthy pregnancy)I will pray that you will heal mentally and physically soon.
AlexandraFunFit says:
I wish for you the healing powers of grieving and the hope of knowing you are loved by many. Those of us who have had miscarriages will always hold the “what if” in our heads and hearts. Much love to you and to your husband.
Abby @ BackAtSquareZero says:
There are no words to express how sorry I am. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lauren @ Lawfully Wedded Wife says:
I know that there probably aren’t any words to make a difference…but I am praying for you and your family.
Janet says:
Praying that the peace that surpasses all understanding would surround you and your family and praying that God would wrap His loving arms around you for comfort at this time. I’m so sorry.
Elle says:
So very sorry for your loss.
Kathy says:
I am so sorry. I am praying for God’s comfort and presence to be with you during this sorrow.
Alicia at Poise in Parma says:
Sending you many thoughts and prayers.
Becky@munchingveggies says:
Am so very sorry for your loss! Love and prayers as your sweet little one returns to heaven. May you feel His embrace as he welcomes your babe home.
Kelly says:
I’m so sorry, prayers.
Austin says:
I’m praying for you. <3
Heather @ For the Love of Kale says:
I’m so incredibly sorry, Lindsay. Sending you so much love and light. <3
Christin@christinjoyful says:
Crying at my desk right now. I am so sorry Lindsay and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
“But if we live in the light, as God is in the light, we can share fellowship with each other.” (1 John 1:7 NCV)
Hugs and tears,
Christin
natalie@thesweetslife says:
so many prayers for you!
Courtney @ Sweet Tooth, Sweet Life says:
So, so sorry Lindsay. Thinking of you. xo
Jonathan Aluzas says:
Oh man. So, so sorry. My wife and I went through 5 years of fertility treatment including surgeries and multiple rounds of IVF and in the end, nothing. No babies for us.
But you, I know it will work out for you. This sucks for now, but I know it will work out.
Shayla B. says:
You have no idea who I am but I have been following your blog for a little while and love it. As a mom of 2 myself I felt like I should leave a comment wishing you the best and hoping for the peace and healing of the Lord to help calm your saddened heart. I cannot say that I know what you are feeling and going through but I hope that He who does will help you to find what you need, whatever or wherever it may be.
Meghan @ After the Ivy League says:
I can’t even imagine. I am so sorry. Praying for all of you.
Kristen says:
I am so sorry Lindsay. You are seem such a wonderful mom. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. Remember, God’s love is big enough and strong enough for all that you’re feeling right now, even anger at Him.
Debbie says:
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Electra @ Vanilla Bean Lean says:
I don’t think there are any words anyone can say to make this any better. I just want you to know you’ll be in my thoughts. Stay strong, I know you are.
Laura @ Mommy Run Fast says:
Oh my friend, my heart aches for you. What terrible news… I will definitely be praying for you. Wish I lived nearby, I’d gladly take the kiddos for an afternoon so you could sleep and cry and grieve. Sending much love…
Erin says:
So sorry to hear this! Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
Sarah @ The Smart Kitchen says:
I love you.
MCM Mama says:
I’m so sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
eryka says:
Praying for you Lindsay!! What heartache and saddness. May the arms of Jesus comfort you today.
Paige @ Your Trainer Paige says:
Lindsay…my heart is aching for you, dear :( I am so, so, so sorry. You know you are in my prayers. xoxoxoxo
Angie @ Losing It and Loving It says:
I’m so sorry! Sending hugs and prayers your way.
Molly Ritterbeck says:
Lindsay – I carried to 20 weeks and then found out…I am so sorry for your loss and can only tell you thaat you just need to do what you can to get better. No one can tell you how to heal…Sending love and hugs….if you have ANY questions – please let me know!
Clare @ Fitting It All In says:
praying for you
Jentry Nielsen says:
Oh my goodness Lindsay! I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, I have no words! My prayers and thoughts will be with your family during this devastating time! It’s hard to know why, but God has his plan and I know your family will only become stronger through this!
Colleen @ The Lunchbox Diaries says:
No words. I’m so sad for you and your family, Lindsay. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Beth @ Miles and Trials says:
So so sorry. Praying for you and your husband.
Courtney says:
I’m so sorry for your loss, Lindsay! Sending lots of prayers, and virtual hugs your way.
Annette@FitnessPerks says:
I am praying for you too. xoxo
Brianna Williams says:
I am so sad to hear about your loss. I will be praying for you. As I thought about you, my reading in Hebrews this morning came to my mind: “Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father?…No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees.” Heb 10:7, 11-12. This is an extremely difficult situation but God still loves you, He is still there, and you will be closer to Him on the other side. Hang in there, many are praying for you.
Miz says:
praying.
Erica says:
My heart is with you
Bridget B. says:
Thinking of you in your time of loss. May He comfort you in his love. I am so very sorry.
Lisa says:
Oh Lindsay, this makes me so sad to hear. I’m sorry to hear this news. And I’m praying and thinking of your family much during this time! Stay strong! Hugs.
Kristin @ My Mission Impossible says:
I have been here too, although I knew it was happening. I know how you are feeling and I’m sad that you are going through this. It won’t help now, but you will be okay eventually. You and you’re family will be in my thoughts and prayers, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Marie says:
I am so so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how I know you must be feeling. Stay strong and know that many many people are praying for you.
Amy says:
so so sorry lindsay…im thinking about you and your family.
Brittany @ RunReadRepeat says:
I’m so sorry for your loss– sending you all lots of thoughts, hugs,and prayers today
Amanda@HappyMotherRunner says:
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers during this very difficult time.
Emilie says:
Keeping you in my prayers Lindsay. So sorry to hear this.
Beccalou says:
I am praying for you in your grief and devastation, Lindsay… Jeremiah 29:11
Jane says:
Praying for you, Lindsay.
Danielle says:
I am so sorry. Sending you love.
Candice says:
I’m so sorry Linds! Keep your head up. It happens, but its never okay. Just know there was nothing you could of done to prevent it. It is not your fault at all. I have been through it multiple times. Lean on your family and friends for support. We are all here for you! xoxo
Erin @ Girl Gone Veggie says:
Oh Lindsay. I am so so sorry! My heart and thoughts go out to you and I’m sending tons of love you and your family’s way!! <3
Elizabeth says:
Crying and Grieving with you. May our precious Heavenly Father envelope you in in His arms and hold your heart. Praying for you & your family.
Amber Ellison Walker says:
My heart is with you in this time of grief.
Erin says:
I’m so sorry to hear this Lindsay. Sending lots of love to you and your family.
Jordyn says:
Praying for you, Lindsay. We don’t always understand, but it’s always in His control.
Emily says:
Oh Lindsay, I’m praying for you and your family. You are strong and God will provide.
Sylvia @ Frolic Through Life says:
I’m so sorry Lindsay. Praying for you and your family. <3
Carrie@familyfitnessfood.com says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and strength to you and your husband.
Ashley F. says:
Praying for you dear. Sending all of my love your family’s way.
Jessica says:
My heart aches for you and your family. Sending love, hugs, and prayers from Wisconsin.
Alison @ racingtales says:
So sorry…there are no words that will heal, just time.
Sabrina @Work It Ms Jackson says:
Lindsay, I am so sorry about your loss. I have been there and know the pain you are feeling and am heartbroken for you. I know nothing I say can truly make you feel better, but maybe God thought your baby was perfect for Earth. I’ll be thinking about you and your family.
Ashley @ My Food 'N' Fitness Diaries says:
Words can’t express how sorry I am for you and your family, Lindsay. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
BrookeNotOnADiet says:
*hugs*
Natalie @ Free Range Human says:
I’m so so sorry, Lindsay. Your blogging family is praying for you and yours today.
Angela @ Happy Fit Mama says:
I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there before. It hurts more than you can ever imagine. Thoughts, hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Cait says:
Oh Lindsay! My heart is bleeding for you. I’m so so sorry. Sending lots of love and hugs your way!
Christine @ Love, Life, Surf says:
I’m so so very sorry for your loss Lindsay. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
jobo says:
So so very sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sarah @ Blonde Bostonian says:
Oh my gosh Lindsay I am so sorry! Sending good thoughts to you, Travis, and the kids. <3
misszippy says:
So very sorry. I know personally how difficult this is (survivor of four). I’ll be thinking of you!
maria @ lift love life says:
I don’t know what else to say other than I’m so sorry and that you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs.
Katie says:
And we know that God causes ALL THINGS to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28
ALL THE THINGS.
I know you are broken and grieving. I know it hurts and nothing that anyone says can make it better. But He’s totally got you.
I love you dear friend.
Tara | Treble in the Kitchen says:
Lindsay, I am so so sorry for you and your family. Please stay strong. We are all thinking of you.
Heather@Just a Colorado Gal says:
So devastated and heart broken for you both. I am so sorry to hear this; all my thoughts are with you. Big hugs, Lindsay.
Steph @fitmomtraining says:
Crying and comforting with you. Praying for God’s loving hands to bring comfort to you both.
Katie @ Talk Less, Say More says:
Honey, I’m so sorry. I’m sending you lots of love and well wishes. Give yourself time and rest.
Heather says:
Devastated with you & praying for your family :'(
Brittany @ GOtheXtraMile says:
I’m so sorry to hear that, Lindsay. My prayers are with you and your family <3
Kelly @ No Sugar Sweet Life says:
I’m so sorry sweetheart. Praying…hard.
Marcia says:
My heart breaks for you. So, so sorry you are going thru this. Many hugs and prayers are coming your way.
Calee says:
I can’t even imagine what you’re feeling, but know that we are all thinking of you.
Alexandra says:
my prayers are with you and your family <3
Andrea says:
Hugs to you Lindsay.
I am so sorry. :(
Brittany @ Delights and Delectables says:
Oh Lindsay… words can’t express how heavy my heart is for you right now. I am praying for you and praying God’s love and peace to surround you and your family. Love you friend.
Katie says:
I wish I had the words to make you feel better, I am so sorry for your loss and I am thinking of you and the family today. You both are in my prayers <3 I am here if you need ANYTHING. Please do not hesitate to email me. Love you <3
Holly says:
My heart is aching for you today. Praying for peace and assurance that God it’s all knowing and that He has the perfect plan for your life. Prayers for those grieving with you
Nicole says:
I’m so sorry Lindsay. Lean on friends, family, and the Lord. They will help you through this. Hugs and prayers.
Nicole says:
Sending positive thoughts your way. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Claire says:
I am so incredibly sorry. Sending love and all my prayers. Xoxo
Natalie says:
Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Bonnie says:
Lindsay – like others have said no words are even appropriate right now save for groans we know the Holy Spirit will interpret for us in prayer to Jesus. I was shocked to read this and can’t imagine being the woman who receives this news…Praying for you now and all day as you, Travis and your family come to mind. Love you.
Krista says:
sending you and your family love and hugs.
Holly says:
There is nothing that I can say that will help…I wish there was,but I cannot even imagine what the two of you are going through. LOTS of prayers and thoughts sent your way.
Grow Soul Beautiful says:
oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that! My thoughts & prayers for you during this difficult time.
Lindsay @ The Lean Green Bean says:
thinking of you and your family today, friend. wish i could be there to give you a hug.
Michele @ NYC Running Mama says:
Oh Lindsay, I am so so sorry. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Linz @ Itz Linz says:
sending you thoughts and prayers. xoxo.
Danielle says:
No words for this one. My prayers are with you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. Love for you.
Tiff says:
I am so so so sorry. Find comfort in loved ones and prayer. I can’t imagine the hurt.
Sarah @ Fit Betty says:
Thinking of you and praying for your family
alisen says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort.
Brittany @ Itty Bits Of Balance says:
Oh my word. I’m so tremendously sorry, Lindsay. You’ll be in my prayers <3
Danica @ It's Progression says:
I don’t know what to say Lindsay…I’m so incredibly sorry…I’ll be praying for you and your family…
Laura @ Sprint 2 the Table says:
Lindsay… I am so, so sorry. You guys are on my mind. xo
Amanda @RunToTheFinish says:
oh love I am so sorry. I don’t know what you are going through, but have a set of amazing friends who have been through this. If you reach a point where talking to others will help please know there are people who do understand and can help share with you. Lots of hugs
Julia Foster says:
God hears what your heart speaks. When you cant find words. We are thinking of you.
marie says:
Dunno what to say except sending prayers and sympathy.
Lance R. says:
So so sorry you have to experience this Lindsay!
Julie says:
Love you girl.
Leianna says:
I’m an avid reader but never comment. Had to today to say God is still working in your life and is IS by your side! Praying for your family in this sad time:)
chelsey @ clean eating chelsey says:
Lindsay, this makes me so sad. I am so very sorry and I know no words can help right now. I love you and I will be praying for you.
Alyssa @ life of bLyss says:
I have no words. Sending you so many hugs and so much love.
Sara says:
I’m so incredibly sorry. Praying for you and your family.
Grace @ Eat Sweat Sing says:
Sending prayers and love to your precious family! God surely has a plan and will deliver you through this time.
AmyC says:
Very sorry for you. You’ll be in my thoughts & prayers ((virtual hugs))
lindsay says:
Lindsay, you know i am here for you. Praying over you, grieving with you, and more. Cry out to GOd. Anger and all. Feel his comfort. Love you so much. I’m so sorry friend.
Tess @ Cross Country Cajun says:
I am so sorry. I will be praying for you and for your family and lifting you up in prayer each day. xoxo
Sharla says:
Lindsay,
This is a pain I understand and I am heart broken for you this morning. These are dark days. Know there are many people praying for you and the Creator is still in control. You’ve been such a support for me if there is anything I can do for you I am here!
Tami Grandi says:
:( I’m so sorry- praying for you and your family
Lee says:
Im so sorry Lindsay. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Michelle @ Eat Move Balance says:
My thoughts and prayers are with and your family, Lindsay.