a little friday inspiration

May 3, 2013 in Blessings, Blog, Faith, Friends, Guest Post, Inspiration

Have you entered the Blend Retreat giveaway yet???  Last day!  I’ll announce the winner tomorrow! 

Today, I give you Heather.  I’ve only met her once (last year at Blend), but since then, I feel like we’ve become soul sisters.  We have similar views on life, God, family, and most everything else.  She is one of the most genuine people I know and I’m thankful that she emailed me this week and asked if she could help me out by writing a guest post.  What a blessing to be loved on during this time!  To boot, her words were exactly what I needed to hear – maybe you too! 

Thanks, Heather!

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The other day my husband and I took our son, Weston (14 months) to our community group meeting. Now here’s the thing: our son is young. He is learning all the time, constantly exploring, and generally the cutest thing on this planet. As a couple who has led numerous community groups where children are present, we figured we had it in the bag. Sure, we could control him for a few hours, entertain him for bit, and work together as a team should he start to get a little distracting.

We were wrong. Besides the fact that we brought Wes we had also failed to do our homework for the evening, something we didn’t think about until the car ride over. Needless to say you could tell there was a tad bit of frustration in the room as we traded off chasing our son and simultaneously tried to pay attention to and participate in a conversation we were not ready for.

I think you call that a #fail.

Luckily our group has always had a lot of grace for us. Living life together is always going to be messy; you take a bunch of fallible people and throw them together and there will be friction. However, that also means that all of life is a constant opportunity to love one another well and to live out the gospel. What an amazing gift – not just the gospel in and of itself, but the chance to share it in our every move, thought and word with one another!

At the end of the evening we were talking about how it is a continuous fight against our sinful human nature – EVERY DAY – to live as Christ called us to live. It is hard to not fall back on our sins; in fact I’d almost call it comforting on some level to live in a place that we so easily can travel back to. It can be so easy for me to fall back into destructive thoughts and eating patterns, so simple to just pick apart every meal and activity of the day. But when I think about the freedom I’ve found in Jesus, I can’t go back. And I won’t.

But y’all? Fighting is hard. It’s a battle, to the death, every day. And that’s when a new friend shared John 16:33 with us – a verse that I’ve heard a million times before (and probably quoted a few times). GOD OVERCAME IT ALL. WE DON’T HAVE TO – because the reality is that we can’t. But he can and he did.

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My prayer is that you can rest in that grace and in that truth not just today, but all the days of your life. Life is hard; but God has overcome everything so that we may live in peace and fullness with him. Grab hold of that hope and that gift!

You can find Heather at:

www.heathersdish.com
www.facesofbeauty.org
www.bespokevid.com

life lately…

April 11, 2013 in Blessings, Blog, Family, Kids, Love, Wordless Wednesday

One of the most favorite blogs is Love Taza.  This is a recent (within the last 3 months) development.  I’ll go ahead and warn you – not only will you spend a GREAT deal of time on this site, but after closing your laptop and looking around at your dumpy house and scragamuffin kids, wondering why your husband doesn’t wear a bowtie during the week (or ever), you’ll feel a slight twinge of jealousy.  But that’s ok….we learned how to deal with that yesterday.

Anyway, Love Taza has a weekly feature called, “Life Lately, According to My iPhone Pictures.”  Basically a “Wordless Wednesday”-type post.  But since it’s Thursday, I had to steal her title.  What I could not steal was her New York City background.  Oh well.  I kinda like my little life.

Life Lately….

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I hope you’re having a wonderful Thursday, friends!  We’re SO close to the weekend!

P.S.  Have you entered the PROBAR giveaway yet??

splendid…lindsay

when life hands you vomit….

March 29, 2013 in Blessings, Blog, Family, Fivethings Friday, Kids, Love

…make lemonade.

And then gift it to your worst enemy.

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So Henry was sick yesterday with the stomach flu.  If you don’t have children, you should know something.  Kids don’t exactly make it to the toilet when they’re sick.  It’s almost as if the vomit is attracted to the cleanest object it can find.  Like legal documents.  Or your favorite rug.

It’s a science of some sort.  Or witchery.

What Do You Do When….

When he tells you his belly hurts…

…immediately find a trash can.  Then throw it aside and give him your clean shoulder.  Without a doubt, the vomit will land there anyway.  That’s what you do.

When he insists that he isn’t sick and that he can play Fruit Ninja on your phone….

….don’t trust him.  Or do and then spend the next little while cleaning your iPhone with Lysol and a Q-Tip.  That’s what you do.

When someone offers to whisk your other (healthy) child away….

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….let them!  Then pay them in Chobani.  (thanks Maddy!)  That’s what you do.

When he asks for food…

…breathe a little because it means he must be feeling better.  Then choose wisely – you’ll be cleaning this food off your clean shoulder here in a bit.  That’s what you do.

When your child is sick but you’re supposed to sub a 5:30pm Bootcamp class….

…you get a sub for yourself.  Because family comes first.  That’s what you do.

When he asks to watch “Spaceship Star Wars”…

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…let HIM pick it out of the bunch because you have no idea how to differentiate between “spaceship star wars” or “robot one” or “rancor one.”  That’s what you do.

When he naps…

…let Tony Horton take care of you.  Sweat = sanity.  That’s what you do.

When he wakes up and asks to cuddle…

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…you forget about the germs and the future and yourself and you hold that little boy as tight as you possibly can. 

Because that’s just what you do.

Hoping for a better tomorrow!  Happy Weekend, friends!  Soak it up!!

QUESTION:  When was the last time you were sick??  Fill in the blank – When life hands you lemons, ____________.

splendid…lindsay

in the quiet

March 22, 2013 in Blessings, Blog, Faith, Family, Inspiration, Kids, Love, Worship

Sometimes I don’t blog all of my thoughts – I keep a journal.  Like a real BOOK, something you can tangibly hold in your hands.  Lists, memories, prayers, thoughts, struggles – the book holds them all.  I write when I remember the book (which isn’t often) and I have a special pen that I use for this particular journal (of course she does). 

Anyway, I scribbled down these words the other morning and then thought they might be pretty enough to share.  Right now, after 3 days away, I’m heading back the little house and the little people described below and I cannot WAIT!!  Trips are nice, but my “normal” is way better.

Happy Friday, loves!

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I awoke on my own.  No mechanical buzzing.  Simply woke.  What was that dream?

It’s quiet.

My babes, active in their dreams, lay still under the quilts loved ones have pieced together.  If they only knew how much they are loved.

Before I place my feet on the ground, I vow to give this day to God.  To rejoice and be glad.

I tiptoe into the kitchen.  It takes a mere moment.  This house is tiny.

It holds every single thing I love.

Peeking out the kitchen window, Spring greets me.  The once frosty grass, now green with life.  Vibrant, buzzing.

Those tiny brown and black birds.  What are they called?

Stretch.  Moan.  I am cat.

Savoring this silence, coffee must be made.  Black.  Yes.

When did I grow up to like this taste?  Last year?  The year before?

Before breakfast, before washing the pile of dishes in the sink, before wondering about my age – I sit on the sofa, gently tucking my legs under my body.

I love this mug.  A gift from a friend.  If she only knew how much she is missed.

It’s easy to schedule and plan the day.  I don’t let myself.

This moment, right now, it is made for silence.

Not questions or thoughts.  Not for my children or my husband.  Not even for me.

It is for Him.

To be silent with Him.  In Him.

To simply be.

His daughter.  His loved one.  The heir to His throne.

Suddenly, my daughter coos.  The silent moment flees.

And the race begins.

I am ready for it.

The silence has made me stronger.

Will time allow for more quiet in this day?  Will I seek it out?

Will you?

QUESTION:  Do you ever relish in these moments of silence?  How will you take hold of today?

splendid…lindsay